'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

This is the blog of Rami Beracha on the venture capital world. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very significant. I would dare say that it's like a minefield that is our own creation .. It starts one second after the first contact is made with someone and ends with an incredible explosion...
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Our biggest mistake is to think that we're in complete alignment in our expectations for each other and not trying to guess what our partner expects from us. One thing we can be sure of however: the other party doesn't waste any chance to widen this gap . There's no one to warn us about the imminent clash.
There are a myriad of factors that can lead to confusion. People with square personalities are more likely to avoid communicating with people who are liberal. Aggressive personalities will have trouble aligning their expectations and the expectations of passive people. This is easy to recognize as everyone can tell the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.
What if they're very different? They'll never be aware of that. Imagine to yourself that there's a type of personality gap that exists, but is not even noticed by us. Nobody has ever noticed it, warned others about it, or investigated it...NOT FREUD! !
Ladies and gentlemen! Let me introduce you to a brand-new personality one that we all share. The personalities of the FULL CIRCLE differ from the HALF CLIRCLE characters. !
Note: A behavior guideline when reading the following analysis, try to figure out which personality most accurately describes you as well as try to figure out which one of your friends is. If you discover that you are of different kinds - as Bono song says "we are one however we're not the same" You should be thrilled because you may have just discovered the reason behind the differences between you! If, on one hand, you are the same person and you are not, I am sorry to say that I am unable to help you understand why you are in relationships that appear to be so terrible.
We are here...
Humans can be divided into two categories. A few of us fall under the "full-circle" category that is a person that can be completely independent and does not feel like he needs a partner. He does need partners, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's on a constant search for a partner. Absolutely! all true! ... But, he'll be able to survive without the perfect partner until he does. If he can find the right one and has found the right one, he'll be able to enjoy your life with a full circle of friends.
https://www.edenblock.com/team
The "half of a circle" individuals on the opposite side have to find a companion. They will not let go after they've found their miserable partner. They'll try to live with their victim as if they were one of them, and not give up on the idea of living in harmony. The Halves aren't going to compromise their love for each other. They will gaze at each one another in the same manner from the distance for the rest of their lives. Their desire to be one with their partner and create a whole will only be satisfied by something less intimate.
רמי ברכה
The decision to let go of someone is an everyday occurrence. The whole circle is likely to let go of a partner who has lost their chemistry rapidly. On the other hand half-circle types redefine the concept of chemistry between two people to mean "I am holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with a new upgrade."
Imagine the most amazing dance, in which a "half a-circle" and a "full-circle" are trying to create one another, and not even noticing their different geometries. The Half is smiling and makes two steps ahead. The Full considers this unwelcome invasion to be slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he accomplished this by taking the Half out of his comfortable zone . When the Half thinks that the Full committed an error that was not his fault and responded with a step forward the Half starts to get angry and makes a second step backward.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are both a bit off. The Half and the Full are aware of the reason, but they lack proper terminology. They can't properly explain their anguish so they look at the wrong things. They could have saved their lives by knowing that one is Half and one is Full.
https://www.law-bracha.com/צוות-המשרד/רמי-ברכה/
While there's no one solution, there are options you could do.
1. Find out who you are as a person.
2. Find out who your partner is
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3. Recognize that there is a huge difference.
https://jerusalem.mynet.co.il/good_to_know/article/H1A1soP2w
3. Respect the distinction!
רמי ברכה
One thing to remember is to live and let life.